M. Albert Rile
Opinion: Sydney, I'm Back
It took almost 50 years for me to go back to Sydney supposedly on a
sentimental journey but my colleagues whom I worked with at LifeSavers (candy
with a hole) are either retired or they are gone! Actually, most of them were
older than I.
After a seven and a half hour-flight from Manila, PAL’s Boeing 777-300 finally landed at the Land Down Under. I took a shuttle bus from Kingsford International Airport to the hotel at Kings Cross. Australia is 3 hours ahead of the Philippines hence, we left@9:40PM Wednesday and reached Sydney @8AM the following morning. After brunch, I went around Kings Cross which is said to be "where the action is" but it was broad daylight so, I could only see old folks reading or chatting in the Park and a couple sun bathing. At night, there were men and women (probably pimps) trying to pull people off the streets to watch burlesque shows. I got that invitation but I turned it down!
Opinion: Socialites in Bel Air
There is a small group in Bel Air Subdivision, Barangay Tangub, Bacolod City,
Philippines who call themselves "Best Friends in Bel Air." Actually, they are
the former Officers of the defunct Bel Air Bacolod Homeowners’ Association who
have been supportive of each other in good times and in bad times. This Group is
composed of fun loving people who love to party just among themselves most of
the time but it will hopefully expand as the years go by. They are Leo and Ailyn
Sibala, Mrs. Catalina Talde, Bingbing Perez Villanueva, Raquel Perez, Grace
Carpio and Grace Genovea, Ruel Lavilles, Marilou Merida and her hubby Doming,
Capt. Johnny Legaspina and NDB’s Albert Rile and his assistant Buboy Bargamento.

Despedida Merienda for Leo Sibala and Raquel Perez (from left) Grace Carpio,
Marylou Merida, Catalina Talde (partly hidden), NDB’s Albert Rile, Leo Sibala,
Ailyn Sibala, Raquel Perez and Bingbing Perez Villanueva
Opinion: Kasambahay Rejoice!
Finally, Domestic Helpers DH have reasons to be happy what with the approval
by President P-Noy of the Kasambahay Law or Republic Act 10361 which "institutes
policies for the protection and welfare of domestic workers," on January 18,
2013 and this takes effect 15 days from date of signing. Hence, from now on
domestic helpers viz. yayas, laundry men and women, drivers, gardeners, cooks,
etc. are entitled to a minimum wage of 2,500 PHP per month in National Chartered
Cities, 2,000 in Chartered Cities and First Class Municipalities and 1,500 in
other Municipalities. Aside from this, they will be entitled to a paid one month
leave (meaning they get paid on a 13-month/ per year basis), paid day off,
Social Security, Philhealth and Pag-ibig benefits. With all these changes that
will take effect, only the wealthy, the rich and famous and probably families of
OFWs will be able to afford domestic helpers. Since most Overseas Foreign
Workers cannot enjoy the luxury of a household help abroad, at least their
families in the Philippines can benefit from their hard work and sacrifices.
They too, will have their chance only when they retire and/or when they have
saved enough.
Opinion: Holiday Fun in Bel Air
The birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is an occasion that calls for a
big celebration considering that His Coming gives us All HOPE for Redemption. As
a consequence, the Homeowners of Bel Air in Barangay Tangub, Bacolod City held
their annual Christmas Party on Sunday, December 16 at 6PM in the home of Mrs.
Catalina Talde on Carter St. Among those present were Mrs. Ailyn Sibala (Leo was
unable to come due to pressure of work in Qatar and was missed by everyone),
Mrs. Luz Tamayo and her grandchildren, Ryosuki Kashiwagi (Joe Owens chipped in
for the lechon before he went abroad) who accepted the award for one of the best
Christmas Displays for his Mom Neneng, Misses Grace Carpio and Grace Genovea,
Mrs. Bingbing Perez Villanueva and her cute 2-year old son Tristan (who was the
youngest in the group), Ms. Bebing Perez, Ms. Romilla Gelera who came rather
late but was able to catch up, Mr. & Mrs. Doming and Marilou Merida, members of
the Talde family, etc. and NDB’s Albert Rile with Buboy, Jenny & Janelle
Bargamento. Menu consisted of crispy and juicy lechon (nice and crispy skin
outside and juicy meat inside), chicken cordon bleu, pancit bijon, arroz a la
valenciana, roasted chicken, boneless and fried bangus, spaghetti, dessert, etc.

Organizers of the Bel Air Party from left: Bingbing Perez Villanueva with son
Tristan, Grace Carpio, Catalina Talde, Marylou Merida, Luz Tamayo, Ailyn Sibala
and NDB’s Albert Rile.*
Opinion: Dreadful Dementia
How would you feel if your own mother does not even know who you are?
Devastated? Absolutely! That is exactly how I felt when Nanay called me "Big
Brother" (she probably pictured me as her favorite older brother, the late Cesar
Cuadra, Sr.) when I reached Orange County after driving with my sister Elizabeth
from Chicago in my brand new Toyota Corolla. Prior to that, she kept calling me
up and asking me to join her and my brother Rafael and sister Elizabeth in
Southern California. When my sister confirmed Nanay’s condition, I became very
emotional, I ran to the bathroom and cried my heart out! Her nagging insistence
got me into selling my house and lot in Berwyn, Illinois, quitting my job and
buying myself a brand new car. However, if she would take her prescription
Aricept, her brain cells got reactivated and she regained her memory meaning
that she had an early stage of Alzheimer’s disease. Proof was that she
introduced me to her primary doctor as "her son" which somehow amazed her
physician. I used to take time off work just to take her to the doctor and I
even fed her as I was aware that she had a hard time eating. I got the
consolation however that I spent some quality time with Nanay. Later, I learned
that dementia is genetichence, I decided to do some research on this subject.
Opinion: Bel Air’s Safety
It’s very frustrating when one makes promises and fails to deliver them.
That’s exactly how the active residents of Bel Air felt when the "Temporary"
President of San Lorenzo Subdivision assured them of his presence at their
meeting, but did not make it for some unknown reason.

Bel Air Officers (seated left to right) Catalina Talde, Grace Carpio, Romilla
Genera and Luz Tamayo; (standing l-r) Albert Rile, Jojo Jurisprudencia, Ailyn
Sibala and Leo Sibala.*
Opinion: How Safe are the Burbs?
This article will dwell solely on two neighboring suburbs namely, Bel Air and
San Lorenzo in Barangay Tangub, Bacolod City. Recent incidents triggered the
reactivation of Security Guards/ Tanods for the safety and security of the
homeowners and the residents.
A woman walking on the streets of San Lorenzo had her bag with her cell phone inside snatched by a motorbike-riding guy in broad daylight. On the other hand, in Bel Air, a couple was robbed of their jewels, cell phones, etc. (kuno!) in their house on Ford street. That was the second theft that took place in the same house also in broad daylight. There were reports of robbery in San Lorenzo Subdivision as well and laptops, cell phones and other personal properties belonging to the homeowner were taken by an unknown individual from their home, not to mention attempts of theft in some houses in the area. Apparently, the Burbs are no longer as safe as they ought to be.
Feature: Twinkle is 19
Twinkle Rile Trayfalgar, the youngest of two daughters of Marlon and Socorro
R. Trayfalgar turned 19 last Saturday, August 18. To celebrate the occasion, her
loving Papa Marlon tendered a seafood dinner for her at Hyksos Restaurant in
Bacolod City.

(from left, left row) Arturo Trayfalgar, Twinkle and Socorro Trayfalgar with
the Vista children (right row, same order) Jay Lizares, Arby Borda, NDB’s Albert
Rile, Baby T. Vista and son Erickson
Opinion: Toxic Fumes, Anyone?
The new LTO Head, Renato Novero seems to be heading towards the right
direction with the implementation of at least, PHP 1000 fine on motorcycle
riders violating the new law requiring them to wear DTI-Certified standard
helmet for their own protection. Since then, the streets of Bacolod have been
flooded with helmet-wearing motorcycle bikers, good start! Kudos to the
Enforcement Officers who have been giving out tickets to violators.
Also, the anti-jaywalking campaign seems to be going quite well, but there are still many pedestrians who either ignore or just do not know what the pedestrian lanes are for. Proper warning should be given them and fines should be imposed on them as well. Only trouble is that many pedestrian lanes are hardly visible in many cross streets and intersections all over the city and suburbs.
Feature: Cebu Revisited
At the invitation of my extended family from Chicago, I went on a sentimental
journey to Cebu recently for the Grand Rabor Reunion. Their most kind and
generous mother whom I fondly call "Mama Rabor" took care of me when I was ill
in the Windy City that’s why, there is always a special mass for her on her
birthday on March 24 at the Carmelite Monastery in Bacolod City and I always
prayed and offered flowers at the Chicago Memorial Park for her each time I
would be in town. Hence, there is a strong bond between the Rabor Children and
me.

Formal Affair at the Casino Español with L-R: Brothers Sam & Willie, Sister
Oping Rabor McNichols and Niece Florence R. Montalvo

